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I couldn't fully relax until I knew my daughter was home safely.

Until I found a way to give us both more peace of mind.

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My Femmy personal safety alarm

"Last night this may have saved my life. At first I thought, ‘Whatever…’ But I’m absolutely grateful that I made this choice. Every woman should have this."

— Ella K, London

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The Moment Every Parent Knows

It Starts With One Small Text: “Let Me Know When You’re Home.”

At first, it feels like enough. She texts when she leaves school, when her shift ends late, when she’s walking back from the gym, or when she’s heading home after a night out. And most nights, everything is fine.

But as a parent, you know there are still moments where a text message or shared location doesn’t feel like enough. You might find yourself checking your phone, refreshing her location, or waiting longer than expected for the message that says she’s home. Not because you don’t trust her, but because you know there may be moments where she feels unsafe before she has time to call, type, or explain what’s happening.

You don’t want to scare her. You don’t want to control where she goes or make her feel like she can’t live her life. You simply want her to have something with her that is easy to use, quick to reach, and made to help her draw attention if she ever needs it.

Not to make her afraid of the world, but to make sure a text message, a shared location, a set of keys between her fingers, or “I’ll be fine” isn’t her only safety plan.

Because the real worry isn’t that she goes out. It’s knowing there may be moments where you simply can’t be there.

The Reality Behind That Feeling

You’re Not Being Overprotective. The data shows it...

0% Of women in the UK have experienced some form of sexual harassment in public spaces.
0 Women in the UK are victims of rape or sexual violence every year
0% Of women surveyed said they had felt unsafe walking alone after dark.
0% Of women said they had changed their route and stopped doing their favourite activities to avoid having to walk in the dark.
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These numbers point to one clear reality

Feeling unsafe after dark is not a rare exception for women and girls, it shapes the way they plan their evenings, their routes, and their journey home.

For a parent, that matters. Because when your daughter is walking back from work, school, the gym, or a night out, reassurance only goes so far.

A text message can let you know she’s okay.

But it doesn’t give her a way to react in the moment if something feels wrong.

That’s why being prepared matters. Not because you want her to be afraid, but because you want her to have something simple, fast, and within reach when you can’t be there.

  • Designed by a parent who knows what it’s like to have to wait, and what it was like when it went wrong...



    I created My Femmy after the night no parent ever wants to experience.

    My daughter was walking home.
    It should have been a short journey.
    I was waiting for the usual message:

    “I’m home.”

    But that message didn’t come.

    Later, I found out she had been assaulted by a stranger on her way back.

    That moment changed everything for me.

    Because I realised that the things so many parents rely on, a text, a phone call, a shared location, can only reassure us after the moment has passed. They don’t give our daughters something to use when they feel unsafe right there and then.

    I didn’t want to make her afraid.
    I didn’t want to take away her freedom.
    I just wanted her to have something simple, fast, and within reach if she ever needed to draw attention.

    That’s why My Femmy was created.

    A small personal safety alarm for daughters, made for the parents who want to give them more than just “text me when you’re home.” Something that brings REAL protection.

    - Founder & CEO Sandra Barker
Meet My Femmy

The personal safety alarm built for real moments.

Not for the movies. Not for self-defence classes. For the exact moment something feels wrong. When she's alone, when no one picks her up, and when she doesn’t have time to think.

My Femmy personal safety alarm
130dB Verified

130dB Ultra Loud Alarm — People within 300m can hear her

Creates instant, unavoidable attention in any environment. Verified in open outdoor spaces, not just indoors. When it goes off, people notice. That's the point.

Instant attention

Pull-pin activation — Works even if she freeze

No buttons. No thinking. No skill required. One pull is all it takes. Even if her hands are shaking, even if she's running and even if her brain has gone blank.

No-skill required

Compact keychain design — Always within reach

Clips to your bag, keys, or jacket in seconds. Small enough to forget it's there. Ready when needed.

Always ready

Flashing strobe light — Seen and heard

Sound alone can be ignored. The strobe light makes it impossible to miss. In the dark, in a crowd, at distance. Multi-sensory = maximum disruption. That's what we need!

Maximum visibility

No unnecessary installation required — Installed in seconds

No app. No Bluetooth. No dependency on anyone else. My Femmy works the moment you pull the pin — independently, instantly, every time.

Fully independent
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My Femmy 2.0

My Femmy 2.0

Make sure she’s safe. My Femmy 2.0 is a compact personal safety alarm designed for everyday carry, with a powerful siren that can be heard from up to 300 metres away. Simply clip it on and head out with greater peace of mind.

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What's included

  • My Femmy 2.0 (New Version: Loud 130dB siren and flashing strobe-light)
  • Solid brass keychain
  • Charging cord (USB-C)

Shipping & Returns

Shipping: All our orders are delivered free of charge and are dispatched within 2 working days of the order being placed.

Returns: We're happy to offer returns on items purchased in our online store that are in re-sellable condition within 30 days of purchase.

What is My Femmy 2.0

  • My Femmy 2.0 is the new and improved version of the Original Personal Safety Alarm made for women, by women. Her new features include:
  • 130dB alarm: Can be heard from a distance of 300m
    Activation: Immediate pull-pin activation, even if you freeze
  • Strobe light: Brighter flashing strobe light. Multi-sensory attention = maximum disruption.
  • Battery: The new updated battery lasts up to 1 year when charged.
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What our customers say

Setting the right expectations:

Perfect gift for my daughter.

She is going to uni in September and I wanted her to have something practical. She loves it and honestly so do I. Ordered one for myself too.

CLAIRE B. Verified customer review - 1 day ago

I was very sceptical!

I used to always send a message to my flatmate whenever I was on my way home. And now I don’t need to do that anymore. It really makes me feel safer. I didn’t think it would actually be like this, because to be honest, I was very sceptical!

SOPHIE M. Verified customer review - 2 days ago

Genuinely may have saved my life.

I was walking home alone at night when a man started following me. I reached for my My Femmy clipped to the outside of my bag, pulled the trigger and the man turned around and walked away. I’m a bit speechless, because who would have expected this to actually work?

RACHEL T. Verified customer review - 4 days ago

Every woman needs this

Bought one for myself and then ordered two more for my sister and best friend. The sound is genuinely alarming, in the best way. I just feel a lot more confident. I think it really does the job!

DANA O'L. Verified customer review - 6 week ago

Sleek and discreet.

I was worried it would look clunky on my bag but it is really stylish. Nobody knows what it is until they need to. That is exactly what I wanted.

AMARA K. Verified customer review - 1 week ago

Worth every penny.

I carry it everywhere. It clips onto my bag perfectly and the alarm is incredibly loud. Feels reassuring just knowing it is there.

JESSICA W. Verified customer review - 1 week ago

Why My Femmy?

See the difference.

Unlike traditional self-defence tools, My Femmy was made for women, by women. It's non-violent, travel-safe, and designed to fit seamlessly into her lifestyle. The peace of mind you can carry everywhere.

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Easy to use ✓ ✕
Lightweight ✓ ✕
Non-violent ✓ ✕
UKCA (UK Conformity Assessed) ✓ ✕
Travel-friendly ✓ ✕

Still have questions?

We've got you covered.

The most common questions...

  • Yes, and that's exactly why we designed it the way we did. My Femmy activates with one pull of the pin. No buttons, no apps, no thinking required. Even her your hands are shaking, even if she's running, one pull is all it takes.

  • 130dB is louder than a car horn and roughly equivalent to a jet engine at close range. In any normal environment — a street, a car park, a park — it will be heard. That's the point: it creates unavoidable, immediate attention.

  • The pull-pin mechanism requires a deliberate pull to activate. It won't go off from bumping around in your bag. If it does go off accidentally, simply reinsert the pin to stop it immediately.

  • Every order from the United Kingdom is processed within 2 working days (excluding public holidays or other events). You will receive a Track & Trace link as soon as your order is ready for dispatch.

  • Absolutely. We offer a 30-day money-back guarantee. If you're not completely satisfied for any reason, contact us within 30 days. We always aim to respond to requests within two working days

  • Yes, completely legal. Personal safety alarms are legal to carry and use in the UK and across Europe. They are non-violent, non-harmful, and widely recommended by police as a first line of personal safety. That’s why it’s so great to take My Femmy with you when you travel. It’s approved in every country, so you’re a lot safer wherever you go!

  • Absolutely, My Femmy is often given as part of a lovely birthday hamper or simply on its own when you want to give your girlfriend, daughter or mum a present because you care so much about them

  • My Femmy is fully rechargeable via USB-C and holds charge for up to 1 year on standby. So don’t worry about carrying your My Femmy with you when it’s empty, it lasts a very long time! And when the time comes, the device will let you know.